Playlist/播放列表: 5 Stages - Depression

Edit 7/17:

Added someone I found recently, JP Saxe.

Depression (沮丧)
Won't Even Start - David Choi
渐渐 - 赵薇
搞笑 - 罗志祥
Wish You Were Here - Avril Lavigne
失忆的金鱼 - 杨丞琳
Happier - Ed Sheeran
就让这首歌 - 张震岳
冰雨 - 刘德华
眼泪的名字 - 谢安琪
Consequences - Camila Cabello
참 쓰다 - Lee Ming Jung

A Little Bit Yours - JP Saxe

Everyone feels sad in their own way.
In that sense, you tend to gravitate to the songs that speak to you.

Youtube Playlist

Playlist/播放列表: 5 Stages - Acceptance

Updated: 04/03/2021

Removed a song and added "Moral of the Story" - Ashe

Acceptance (接受)
Let Her Go - Passenger
还是要幸福 - 田馥甄
我很好, 那么你呢? - 王心凌
那些女孩教我的事 - 品冠
Already Gone - Kelly Clarkson
爱的代价 - 张艾嘉
开始懂了 - 孙燕姿
Always Remember Us This Way - Lady Gaga
我好吗 - 梁静茹
Moral of the Story - Ashe
如果这就是爱情 - 张靓颖

Acceptance in any way shape of form.
It could be bittersweet, could be liberating, could even be taking a deep breath.
It could be smiling, while crying, with snot running down your nose.

Truth is, you don’t really need a playlist for acceptance.

Acceptance is when you can listen to any of the songs in the playlists before, and maintain composure.
Maybe there is a hint of regret, a sight bitterness.

Remember, happiness is a choice.

Youtube Playlist

Playlist/播放列表: 5 Stages - Bargaining

Bargaining (讨价还价)
Stay With Me - Sam Smith
好心分手 - 卢巧音 & 王力宏
We Belong Together - Mariah Carey
不要对他说 - 张信哲
我不想忘记你 - 郭静
The Heart Wants What It Wants - Selena Gomez
When I Was Your Man - Bruno Mars
当爱已成往事 - 林忆莲 & 李宗盛
给我一首歌的时间 - 周杰伦
会呼吸的痛 - 梁静茹
倒带 - 蔡依林

Denial and Anger are closely linked. Often there are overlaps, even relapse.

The next two are attached to the hip as well.

Thinking of the what could have been... would everything have been different if you just put in more effort, said something, did something, didn't do something.

All of the doubts come racing onto the surface. 

This is the beginning of the end, the internal pain starts.

Everything hurts.

Youtube Playlist

Playlist/播放列表: 5 Stages - Anger

Anger (愤怒)
IDGAF - Dua Lipa
Love the Way You Lie (feat. Rihanna) - Eminem
In Pieces - Linkin Park
Sorry - Beyoncé
我以为 - 品冠
Are You Happy Now - Michelle Branch
Cry Me A River - Justin Timberlake
爱的初体验 - 张震岳
Rolling In the Deep - Adele
All Rise - Blue
Figures - Jessie Reyez

This is the second stage.
Where you start to realize this is not a dream. This is real.

Anger casts a wide net.
Everything comes crashing down, the hate, the rage, the resentment.

Hating yourself, how did I let it get to this step.
Hating others, how could he/she/they do this to me.

Whatever, I don't need them. Screw them.

Youtube Playlist

Playlist/播放列表: 5 Stages - Denial

Denial (否认)
1. So What - P!nk
2. Don't Wanna Know (feat. Kendrick Lamar) - Maroon 5
3. It Ain't Me - Kygo & Selena Gomez
4. Treat You Better - Shawn Mendes
5. 我们说好的 - 张靓颖
6. 最后的风度 - 罗志祥
7 . 我不难过 - 孙燕姿

1st stage of grief.
The amazement of everything failing apart so quickly.
The alleged confidence that everything is going to be fine.
The I don't have time for this right now.

YouTube Playlist
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This has been something that I had worked on ~7 years ago. Picking this up now and trying to consolidate this list again, with new songs that are now in my song library.

Playlist: Coldplay Essentials (Update)

Coldplay's new album Mylo Xyloto came out not long ago.

You guys can refer to my previous post for the playlist I constructed before M.X.

I'm limiting the number of songs to around my previous length, so some songs are culled, and some songs are added in.

Coldplay Essentials
1. Shiver
2. Yellow
3. In My Place
4. The Scientist
5. Clocks
6. Speed of Sound
7. X&Y
8. Swallowed in the Sea
9. Viva La Vida
10. Violet Hill
11. Strawberry Swing
Mylo Xyloto
12. [Mylo Xyloto] + Hurts Like Heaven*
13. Paradise

* Mylo Xyloto leads right smack into Hurts Like Heaven, and makes Hurts Like Heaven jarring to listen to on its own, I have no idea why it is split up into two separate tracks in the first place.

The new list could be a reflection of the changes that spaced these two blog posts. It has been a while since they've released an album, and its been a while I've looked at the list.

Though the lyrics, they are still a marvel.

播放列表: 罗志祥

罗志祥一直是我比较喜欢的一个艺人. 不管是搞笑, 主持, 演习, 还是唱歌, 他样样都行。

从<达人SHOW>的那首"小丑鱼"开始听的... 到现在的<独一无二>, 有几首歌我觉得可以分享:

我把慢歌和快歌分成两个列表. 蓝色代表这首歌在哪个偶像剧出现过.

罗志祥爱情低潮时
1. 小丑鱼
2. 自我催眠
3. 爱转角 <转角遇到爱>
4. 不懂我的心
5. 好朋友
6. 我不会唱歌
7. 最后的风度
8. 防盗锁
9. 搞笑
10. 假如你还在这里 <篮球火>
11. 习惯就好
12. 爱不单行 <海派甜心>
13. 为什么要在一起
14. 怕安静

在这里要特别推荐<防盗锁>, 没有成为主打, 我觉得挺可惜的.


罗志祥爱情追逐中
1. 爱疯头 <海派甜心>
2. 爱的主场秀
3. 潮男正传
4. 个中强手 <篮球火>
5. 独一无二
6. 舞所遁形
7. 恋爱达人
8. 真命天子
Optional 9. 撑腰

这个列表就代表了在恋爱当中的快乐, 幸福的感觉. <撑腰>是不是关于爱情的, 而是友情的, 所以看个人喜好.

Hope you guys like it!

播放列表: 家

妈妈刚走不久. 做作业之余听歌, shuffle到了南拳妈妈的"家"... 虽然听不懂闽南话, 看着歌词, 让我想起小的时候.

1. 家 - 南拳妈妈
2. 离家不远 - 南拳妈妈
3. 家的名字 - 吴克群
4. 回家真好 - 刘德华

还有, 加上我自己觉得不错的, 但不是直接关于家的:
5. 外婆 - 周杰伦
6. 我想更懂你 - 潘玮柏&苏芮


那时我在网上看到"我想更懂你"这首歌的时候, 我还以为就是一般的男女对唱, 说什么之间的感情有距离啊等等的.

等到听了以后, 才知道这是一首妈妈与孩子之间的对话.

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我对家的影响不是怎么的清晰. 小时候我还是寄宿幼儿园, 在家的时间更少了. 记得的, 大多是和阿娘(宁波人是这么叫"婆婆")的.

我最怀念的还是小时候在上海, 当时我六岁出的国, 离开了.
小时候回国每次都还住在原来的地方, 只是已经不是我以前记得的了. 每次回去, 总有些地方变了. 小区前有大门了, 有警卫了.
原来的后门还是对着同济大学的后门呢, 现在被封掉了. 好像说是太多人走近路, 影响小区居民.
本来有个熟食店在就在小区门口, 现在地方还在, 只是没有人了.
上海第一家"家乐福"就在家附近.

直到2001年妈买了新家, 搬离那里.


去年我在上海的时候, 下定决心要旧地重游. 7年了, 那里我7年没去了.


家的门口现在装了铁门, 以前都是随意进出的. 呵呵, 7年太晚了, 我们家02年被小偷闯入过. 也可能是为什么现在有铁门了.


小时候不像现在, 有那么多绿化, 妈妈和我说过, 她在楼下种了一颗橘子树. 好像没成功, 被拔掉了.


这是我记得的. 如果出去买东西, 玩耍, 都要经过这里.


封掉的那个后门. 现在变成回收站了. 本来还有一排商店呢, 都没了.


以前的熟食店.

我这次运气好, 本来看到铁门, 灰心了, 不能进去"参观参观".
在往回走的时候遇到了我们家的老邻居, 我都叫他"小周叔叔". 还真的想不到他还是住在隔壁.

岁月是不饶人的, 人是这样, 房子也是这样.
至少在我能记起的东西里, 他们家没有变. 这... 不是好事. 我感叹, 心酸.

我在他们的房子里待了一会儿, 然后到阳台. 这是我记得的, 小时候一直是和小周叔叔的儿子玩耍的, 他在他的阳台, 我在我这边. 聊最新的"黑猫警长", "变形金刚", 玩一些游戏, 因为没有太多玩具, 凭的是想象, 两个4,5岁的小孩的想象. 听小周叔叔说他儿子现在还不错, 我已经好久没有看到他了, 在脑袋里的, 是他7岁的样子.


这次是我在望着我的阳台看, 我还能看到左边某个学校的足球场, 还能看到下面一楼搭的院子. 看不到的, 是4岁的我.

离开了小周叔叔的家, 我在走廊里拍了几张照片.


我家的门... Err, 让我解释. 隔壁在买下我们家后就把房间打通了, 所以没有必要有两扇门. 所以我们家以前的门... 现在是窗户.


这是在另一边的一家, 我记得的只是一个老太太... 现在已不建在了.


我记忆里的家, 少了绿化, 少了车辆, 在我记忆当中是带着浓浓的人情味.

我的阿娘. =)

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写下的这些回忆, 还能让我笑起来.

李宗盛理性与感性作品

在我的iPod有许多老歌.　可能是妈妈小时候一直听的歌吧,　耳濡目染.　一听就感觉很熟悉,　很喜欢.

直到最近在找音乐的时候发现这音乐会的.　怎么里面好多的歌都是我听过的,　都是他写的啊...　大师还是大师啊

在这里我推荐一些我非常喜欢的歌,　加上一些我在里面听到喜欢的,　这些都是"当时"的"流行乐"哦.

1. 别怕我伤心 - 张信哲
2. 领悟 - 辛晓琪
3. 问 - 陈淑桦
4. 不必在乎我是谁 - 林忆莲
5. 明明白白我的心 - 陈淑桦&成龙
6. 当爱已成往事 - 林忆莲&李宗盛
7. 真心英雄 - 成龙&周华键&黄耀明&李宗盛
8. 梦醒时分 - 陈淑桦
9. 阴天 - 莫文蔚
10. 爱的代价 - 张艾嘉


每首歌的歌词都写的非常的好.

Playlist: Coldplay Essentials

Parachutes
1. Yellow
2. Trouble
A Rush of Blood to the Head
3. In My Place
4. The Scientist
5. Clocks
X&Y
6. Fix You
7. Speed of Sound
8. Swallowed in the Sea
9. Twisted Logic
Viva La Vida or Death to All His Friends
10. Lost!
11. Viva La Vida
12. Violet Hill
13. Strawberry Swing

Just sharing the (what I feel) essentials of one of my favourite bands. Theres more songs that are great to listen to.

Also check out: Spies, Shiver, Talk, The Hardest Part, X&Y etc.

I've always been fascinated by the lyrics of their songs, how they get their inspiration. Their songs always manage to stop me from hitting that "Next Song" button.

"Your skin
Oh yeah your skin and bones
Turn into something beautiful
D'you know you know I love you so
You know I love you so"

"Come up to meet you
tell you I'm sorry
You don't know how lovely you are
I had to find you
Tell you I need you
Tell you I've set you apart"

"And I could write a song
A hundred miles long
Well, that's where I belong
And you belong with me
And I could write it down
or spread it all around
Get lost and then get found
Or swallowed in the sea"

"I took my love down to violet hill
There we sat in snow
All that time she was silent still
So if you love me
Won't you let me know?"

I'm sure you'll find something that you like.


Update: I have complied an updated list with Mylo Xyloto tracks here