我不是流言 不能猜测你疯狂的游戏 需要谁准许别人怎么说 我都不介意我爱不爱你 日久见人心
下雨只不过 有谁为你刚哭过孤独只不过 一人走一段缓坡成熟只不过 等一切都不假思索心偶尔执着 在过于喧嚣的场所
我好吗 有谁能倾听 有谁会同情独自等雨过天晴 等不回当时 拥抱的激情我很好 说给昨天听 跟今天一言为定换一张明天的风景 自己和自己同行
我好吗 - 梁静茹
我不是流言 不能猜测你疯狂的游戏 需要谁准许别人怎么说 我都不介意我爱不爱你 日久见人心
下雨只不过 有谁为你刚哭过孤独只不过 一人走一段缓坡成熟只不过 等一切都不假思索心偶尔执着 在过于喧嚣的场所
我好吗 有谁能倾听 有谁会同情独自等雨过天晴 等不回当时 拥抱的激情我很好 说给昨天听 跟今天一言为定换一张明天的风景 自己和自己同行
我好吗 - 梁静茹
Father's Day wasn't something that was in my lexicon for the longest time when I was young. These days it carries a little more weight, though it's not official celebrated.
There are two songs that remind me of dads in general. 1 in English, 1 in Chinese.
This song is in the perspective of a father giving his son some advice.
I actually heard it first in Guardians of The Galaxy Vol. 2, at the end.
Guardians Vol. 2 deals with family and what it means to be family. Lindsay Ellis has a great video essay here.
I couldn't really focus at the song at the end with my initial viewing, but the scene with the song was always very moving. As with the original soundtrack, I bought it and started listening to it.
Then again, this song never really got to me until more recently, after I talked more with my dad.
I think it's always going to be a complex relationship with fathers, be it the ones that are present, or the ones that aren't there.
“How can I try to explain?
'Cause when I do, he turns away again
It's always been the same, same old story
From the moment I could talk, I was ordered to listen
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away
I know, I have to go”
“我要怎么尝试解释呢?
我一尝试,他又转身回避
一向来都是这样
从我能说话开始,我就被命令聆听
现在我知道有办法,我知道我会离开
我知道我必须离开“
这首歌是李宗盛2018年写的,我当然一直是李宗盛的粉丝。
这首歌并不像上面的一首吧,说的是李宗盛自己对他爸的眷恋,一点惋惜。说的他的故事,歌曲也不跟随普通的旋律定义。
“思念其实不是 不是这个歌的主题
我相信不只有我 在回忆时觉得吃力
两个男人 极有可能终其一生只是长得像而已
有幸运的 成为知己 有不幸的 只能是甲乙”
“Reminiscing is actually not the theme of this song
I believe it's not just me that find recollections draining
Between two men, it's extremely likely that the only thing you share is that you look alike
Lucky ones become confidants, unlucky ones are mere passersby”
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Usually songs that have explicit versions and clean (Radio Edit) versions are either censored or edited to a way that's unnatural.
Take P!nk's "Fucking Perfect" vs "Perfect"
Explicit
"Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel, like you're less than, fucking perfect"
Clean
"Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel, like you're less than, less than perfect"
The lyrics removes the burst of emotion in that part. That's the sacrifice you make for the radio edit.
Other explicit songs just does the bare minimum... Ariana Grande's "7 Rings" removes the vulgarities without replacing them.
Granted, I am unsure which method is better. The mind always fills in the gaps where the censored word should be, and when you're doing the sing along... you sing it anyways.
________
Then comes Olivia Rodrigo's drivers license
"Red lights, stop signs, I still see your face, in the white cars, front yards, can't drive past the places, we used to, go to..."
Explicit
"cause I still fucking love you"
Clean
"cause you know I still love you"
Personally I downloaded the clean version of the song and had been listening to it, without realizing that there was an explicit version. I thought well, that's a sad song.
Then YouTube Music served up the explicit version... I thought, damn, that's a desperately sad song.
The clean version alludes to at least knowing the feelings of the breakup, that they talked about it and decided it was best to go their separate ways.
The explicit version... is so one-sided. unrequited. raw.
Fundamentally different songs.
Edit:
Olivia recently appeared on Saturday Night Live singing Drivers License. And she did... well this...
For the second verse of the bridge she sang "I still... I still love you", this kept inline with the explicit version while still being TV friendly.